For several decades, our society has known that Baby Boomers
would re-define what it means to age.
Some aspects of “conventional wisdom” are now being challenged. I’ve recently challenged some of my students
in a gerontology class to think about their own retirement. Assuming they will retire at the age of 65,
and their life expectancy will give them quite a few healthy years beyond that,
what would they want to do? Asking this
question of people in their 20’s and 30’s can yield interesting results.
In Long Term Care, we’re developing an appreciation that
quality of life is just as important as quality of care. What makes life meaningful and
purposeful? Upon admission, we ask
residents about their past hobbies and interests in order to support those areas. Often, though, I’ve heard people mention an
area of interest that they haven’t pursued.
“I’ve always wanted to take up painting, photography, music, reading for
pleasure, etc., but between work and raising a family, I’ve haven’t had
time.” The so-called golden years may be
a time to take up a new hobby, too.
We’re dispelling the idea that seniors can’t learn new things.
Elderhostel is a well-known program of designing classes for
seniors. Teaching methods may differ
somewhat from classes designed for “typical” college students, and the topics
may not be commonly taught on college campuses.
Gerontological research is now showing that the abilities to
think, learn, create, and innovate do not necessarily diminish with aging. People are often required to use these skills
during their careers and child-rearing years.
Upon retirement, the demand to use such skills may diminish, but the
cognitive ability does not. Certain disease
processes, such as dementia, may impact these skills, but aging itself does
not. How can a senior use and sharpen
such abilities?
First, the effort must be intentional. Pursue a new area of interest. Take classes through your adult education
program or online (such as a course from Saint Joseph’s College!). Persist in learning a new skill, even if you
aren’t proficient at first. The
repetition of learning something new and practicing that skill can help to
develop new neural pathways in the brain.
Secondly, hone your problem-solving skills. Mathematical puzzles such as Sudoku, and
language puzzles such as crosswords, can train new neural pathways while also
accessing previously known knowledge. I
enjoy trying to figure out a mystery “whodunit.”
Third, view your personal history as an asset. By participating in classes with students
from other generations, for example, you can lend your voice of expertise while
also learning the new perspectives of others.
I always enjoy teaching a multi-generational class where a variety of
ideas can be shared. I’ve taken classes
with students who were much older than myself, and I’ve admired them and the
experiences they have shared. This may
be the time to write your memoirs, make a quilt related to your family, or
record stories about your family’s history, which will serve to benefit future
generations.
Fourth, view your history in new ways. Gerontologist Harvey Lehman conducted a study
of creativity in aging. He found that
many of the most renowned sculptures in the art world were crafted by older
artists. They used their life experience
artistically in their work. If you
create art, dance, music, etc., does the art you create at an older age take on
a different, more mature meaning than it did at a younger age? The question may, or may not, be your skill
level, but more importantly, the perspective presented by a more mature artist. Reclaim a long-forgotten hobby and compare
your work of today with your work from decades ago.
Fifth, consider spending time in charitable work. Many seniors are taking time for short-term
mission trips where they can use their skills for the benefit of others. Other cultures need your expertise in medical
care, teaching, agriculture, and developing businesses, for example. Even if you can’t afford to travel to exotic
locations, there are areas in the United States that need you, and there are
growing opportunities for using these skills online. Many people express that they intended to
bless others through their charitable work, but they received blessings as
well.
Sixth, even if your senior years are compromised by health
issues, find a way to give to others. In
my work as a nursing home administrator, I found that depression and
discouragement can be improved by focusing on the needs of others, not
ourselves. Can you write letters to
soldiers, knit mittens for underprivileged children, tutor children in reading,
send care packages to college students, or record your own books for the
blind? One of our most fun annual events
was Bowl for Kids’ Sake, a bowling tournament to raise money for the Big
Brothers/Big Sisters organization. While
the organization’s bowling tournament occurred at a bowling alley on a
Saturday, our event was held on Friday on Wii.
The organization brought our residents t-shirts, snacks, and
prizes. One year the top fundraiser for
the entire community was a nursing home resident! An important part of having purpose is the
ability to give to others, to be a provider and not just a recipient.
Don’t let your assumptions define how you’ll spend your
senior years. After all, this isn’t your
grandmother’s retirement!
Submitted by Philip C. DuBois, CNHA, FACHCA, Program Manager, Long Term Care Administration, Saint Joseph's College
1 comment:
Phil, I cannot thank Danine Casper enough to pointing me to blog. I read from the top down and, Twila, if you are reading this, it really was marvelous to read that piece before knowing the author. Phil, this piece on creativity so melds with my experience of creativity, not just for my residents, but in my family. My paternal grandfather was professionally creative in creative adaptions to make orthopedic footwear out of regular footwear. While that was creative a lot of times, few would consider it art.
And yet, when he retired, he began carving wood. This progressed into his gluing pieces of wood together and by using a table saw, jig saw and carving tools, he began to create beautiful statutes and such with great aesthetic including the wood grain being incorpoarated into a spanish dancer's skirt. He was very mentally sharp and artistically creative welll into his 90's ad died at 96, almost 6 months to the day that my grandmother died at 95. So I agree with your point about creativity and its effects on aging, at least anecdotally. Thanks for your blog post!
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